About Sophie
Sophie Wilfin is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief and parenting pressures. She also supports clients with LGBT concerns, trauma and abuse, self‑esteem and issues around intimacy and eating. Sophie works in a direct, down‑to‑earth way and encourages people to use their own strengths in making change.
Sophie describes therapy as a collaborative process. She offers a warm, non‑judgemental space to talk through what feels overwhelming.
Background and approach
Her approach aims to listen closely, validate emotions and help people find clearer next steps. Sophie invites people to reflect on values and small actions that fit their life. Her background includes work at Barnet Bereavement, where she gained experience in bereavement and grief counselling.
That experience is combined with broader practice helping with anxiety, depression and family difficulties. Sophie has four years of professional experience and holds BACP registration. BACP stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
In sessions she draws on several practical methods, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and attachment‑based ideas. These tools are used to help people manage difficult emotions, notice unhelpful patterns and build more helpful daily routines. Sophie explains things plainly and keeps tasks achievable.
People who come to Sophie often want calm, steady support while they work through a life change or a painful event. She focuses on practical steps and on helping people reconnect with what matters to them.
What Sophie works with
Everything Sophie lists, in their own terms. LGBT is the reason Sophie is listed here; the rest shows what else Sophie works with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Parenting issues
- LGBT
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Sophie lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Working online with evidence‑based approaches
Sophie commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy in her work. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters most to them and take small steps in that direction, even when feelings are difficult. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting patterns of unhelpful thinking and testing out different behaviours to reduce anxiety and low mood.Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Sophie treats this as a joint process and will discuss different methods with each person. Together they look at the client's goals and preferences and decide what feels like the best fit for their situation.
If you are considering online therapy, check the current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, avoid travel time and keep check‑ins brief when needed. It can also allow conversations to continue while someone manages a life change, caregiving responsibilities or health challenges. Registered and accredited professionals, including therapists listed here, adapt techniques so they are practical and useful when delivered at a distance.
Questions people ask about Sophie
What kinds of problems does Sophie help with?
Sophie supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, grief and parenting challenges. She also works with issues such as trauma, self‑esteem, eating concerns and LGBT matters.
What is her approach in sessions?
She uses a collaborative, client‑centred style that focuses on listening and practical steps. Methods include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy alongside attachment‑based ideas.
What experience does she have?
Sophie has four years of professional experience and has worked at Barnet Bereavement providing grief counselling. She has supported people with anxiety, depression and family difficulties.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is registered with BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does she work with clients outside the UK?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Sophie?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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